Good afternoon

Have you ever written a gratitude list?

I write a daily gratitude list. I have learned to use this tool. This very effective tool in my life. I have found ¬†by making a gratitude list every morning it changes my thought processes for the day. Some days I wake up and I’m tired and cranky And i don’t wake up really happy or excited about the ¬†day. When ¬†I write out a gratitude list of what I am grateful for, it brings me right back into happiness, ¬†excitement, it gets my mind on the good in my life. It also changes my brain activity from old thought patterns to new thought patterns. We have every ability to change the way we feel. I choose to feel good and happy. Writing ¬†truly changes the way I am thinking.. And this is how I co- create with God to bring more goodness and my life.

Are  you writing a daily gratitude list?  10 things you are grateful for. Do you write a list of 5  amazing things you do everyday? I say 5 because I have found it difficult for women to do more than that. If you can please write more good things about you.  My encouragement is, just to do it! You will start to see how great your life really and how amazing you really are!

See the best in you! Your amazing and your worth it!

I bless you abundantly with much love and honor!

Seeing from another view

Good Morning beautiful people.

Today I would like to share with you a sweet story my beautiful niece went to an Alcholics Anonomus meeting. She is not an alcoholic, yet a friend invited her. She went to an open meeting, which means all can attend. She is a precious beautiful spirit. Knowing her, you would know her heart is a heart full of love. She is looking for solutions for her own life. To bring healing, peace and wisdom, where better than a place were we have walked through it all. She found it extremely inspiring. It humbled her to see the pain and the healing from addiction, that takes place in these rooms.

The 12 steps of AA are the greatest secret to living, and we AA’s have it. If you remember I am in recovery for Alcohol and drugs. The 12 steps and the fellowship really assisted in my healing. I feel everyone should utilize the 12 step tools to assist in living a peaceful productive healed life. I am going to share with you one of our tools. It is the Acceptance pray.

Page 417 Acceptance A.A. Big Book

Acceptance is the answer to ALL of my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing or situation-some fact of my life-unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be in this moment. Nothing, absolutely nothing, happens in God’s world by mistake. Until I could accept my alcholism, I could not stay sober; unless I accept my life completely on life’s terms I cannot be happy. I need to concentrate not so much on what needs to be changed in the world as on what needs to be changed in me and my attitudes.

Change out alcohol for whatever your issue may be i.e. Depression, anger, codependency food issues ect…

You can find the 12 steps on line. If you do this step work it will heal you in ways you could have never imagine. If you have ant questions contact me through my blog.

Be led by peace in all you do. Only see the good in every situation. This my prayer for you. Be blessed and recieve it.

My intention

My blog is designed for outreach to women who have areas of brokenness, or are looking for daily inspiration. This is an open community, so please feel free to pass the word and share with others.

My goal is to uplift, encourage and heal with a particular focus on the recovery community. To expand even further beyond my local community, I’m now seeking more women to help find true emotional freedom.

I have walked through everything from anger, unforgiveness, behavioral issues, alcoholism and drug abuse to breast cancer. I am recovered from a seamlessly hopeless state of mind and body. That happened when I chose to let go and Let God. I’ve said the words many times before but didn’t really know what that meant until now. I learned, it was time to give up my way of thinking and going about life. It was broken and didn’t work.

The change happened when I focused on what God had to say about….me, my life and how I am to live it. This brought about restoration to my life. I’ve learned to change my thoughts and that is how I changed my actions. I can help you do this. When you learn what the truth is about you, you will stop believing the old tapes in your head that are self defeating and destructive. Wouldn’t it be nice to hear how amazing you are? How smart you are. That you are here for a reason. That you are so much more than you even realize..

The program and coaching methods I use for healing is way beyond the 12 steps. It’s at a much deeper level. It involves soul wound healing, forgiving and releasing people that have hurt you, from blame. Forgiving others brings you into your freedom. To do and be who you are created to be. You will have me as your coach, your guide and mentor every step of the way – this is one-on-one process healing.

Does this sound like something you are interested in checking out? Would you like a closer relationship to God and yourself?

No more striving. This isn’t a difficult process, you just have to be ready. Please message me for a free consultation.


Change your thoughts change your life

God morning beautiful people of God,

Happy New Year!

how will this year look different for you? Did you know that worring is a form of praying for what you don’t want?

Romans 12-2 Don’t be conformed to the ways of the world, but be transformed by the renewing of the mind, and then you will know God’s will for your life. This is my life verse, ¬†This means to me, we can continue down the road of fear and our thoughts like I can’t because… I don’t have enough money… It’s to hard… I am sick… I’m not smart enough… ¬†I am overweight I can’t….Or we can cast down these thoughts that to feed us defeat or get into alignment with God, who says… I can because… I’m strong enough to overcome because…. I’ll risk it because…. I am healed because… His word says so. ¬†I had stage 3 breast cancer twice in 2 years, ¬†yet in the ¬†beginning, of the second time, I heard you are healed walk it out. That’s God’s word, so I believed the good thoughts instead of the thoughts of sickness and disease even on the hard days of being tired and angry to be here again, or ¬†just not able to…

my self talk today on a daily basis is as follows ¬†I am strong, ¬†I am confident, ¬†I am bold, I am rich I am creative ¬†I’m anointed I am empowered I am victorious I am healed ¬†and ¬†everybody likes me.

this is the pray I bring into my everyday and now my life looks like these words! I am healed IAm ….

i hope you can use some of this to start your days

bless you abundantly


Christmas Eve

God morning beautiful people of God.

wishing you a Merry Christmas and an amazing New Year!

im praying for all, for forgiveness and love to abound durning this holiday season. If I may pray, a blessing of increase of all that is good in your life, may you receive more!

Have a magical, fun, loving season!

Sending you peace love and joy.


The Gift of cancer

First I would like to thank my new users, that have joined my blog. I bless you and hope that you receive from what I have to share!

I would life to share a brief summary of  my walk with breast cancer. I was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer 11-13 I walk through it like a champ. I did 5 rounds of chemo and 5 weeks of daily radation. I had a double masacatomy . I did everything to ensure there would be no return of cancer. Yet in June the doctor found more tumors at a standard check up. On July 29th of 2015 I went in for surgery and they found 4 cancerous tumors. I went for chemo again. Yet this time I was able to receive a pet scan. I am now cancer free! Yay! I want to share the miracles of cancer not the disease of cancer.

I am excited to share the amazing Gift that cancer has given me!i know this sounds crazy. Even my surgeon is confused when I say this! Lol

It was a true  gift for me to.. find myself ,  love myself and the people around me.

i learned to forgive and I learned to release the people I blamed from blame.

i have found forgiveness and blame are two different things. Forgiveness is an action. That I have done. Yet I had no idea I was still blaming the people that have hurt me. I would says things to myself and others…….is to why I can’t…. Or it’s because of my past… Don’t you see how this has effected me… Don’t you see how you hurt me…

This  behavior has kept me in the NOT taking responsibility for myself. Also NOT living. I have been stuck.

Wow what an eye opener this was and still is, as I am still sifting through and learning about myself and blame.

i always thought I was the victim. Come to find out I was both a victim and a bully. I hurt people too, yet I never saw that. I stayed in my own self pity.  I have really learned to look at myself and make amends to those I have harmed.

we are always told to forgive, you have to forgive, yet no one has ever spoken of releasing blame. At least not in my realm. I feel they are one in the same. Yet until it was revealed to me, I feel they are not the same.

For me this changed everything in my family a real shift of goodness has happened. Letting go of all that binded ¬†me and my family down. I found out I had so much to do with the energy of negativity in my family. Again Wow I had something to do with all the pain, caused me and them. Today I no longer bring this to the table. I am free. I am healed. More to come…

have a beautiful week full of love and healing!ūüėĄūüĎĎ

Love Heals

God morning
I am happy to report I had my last chemo treatment on Monday
I am so grateful that part is over. The doctor wants me to heal for 3 months before my reconstructive surgery. I say only 2 months as you can imagine I am so ready for this to be over. I am walking in my healing! I want to thank everyone again for your love, support, honor, prayers thoughts. I am so very fortunate I walked through this much stronger and trusted my God to heal me and I can say that I believe the word! I claimed Mark 16:17:18 over my chemo every time they injected it. I believe that it only went in to take out the sick negative cells and doing no harm to any organs or my bones any harm, I have had no neuropathy, no bone pain. I have had no side effects like I did last time. The chemo was much more aggressive than last time. Because of the return of the cancer.
I believe the prayer and the IV vitamins, and healthy eating. Yet most of all LOVE. LOVE HEALS. Today I know I am LOVED. Again it takes a village and you are my village and my people. Thank you for loving me to life.
Now it’s time to rest my body for the next surgery. I am a walking miracle and I thank you God for all that have come along side me to raise me up to heal me. I am forever grateful to God and each and everyone of you!! May you be blessed abundantly with all that is good in your life! May you have the capacity to receive more
I love youūüėėūüíöūüíě

Do You Want to Be an Overcomer?

I’m an “overcomer” from child and adult behavioral problems. This lead down a tough road of domestic violence, drug and alcohol addiction. ¬† This continued through my adult life. ¬†I was full of rage and hate and easily offended by everyone and everything. ¬†It was never my fault and the blame always fell elsewhere. ¬†To describe me as “hostile” is actually mild and resonated from every fiber of my being. ¬† The rage within showed up externally to the point my life was a nightmare every day.

How did I go from that lifestyle to an “overcomer?”¬†¬†I can only cite one source and¬†that is God. I surrendered to HIM. ¬† He showed me 8 years ago that I can create my own reality when I follow HIS WILL. ¬†The ¬†bad and the ugly nightmare I was living has¬†changed immensely.¬†Today my life is peaceful, loving, giving, kind and full of generosity. ¬†Every day I surrender to HIS WILL and everything falls into place if I put my will aside and take the action I’ve been guided to do.


Romans 8:28 “…we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.”

As a result of my path, I’m now helping others on their journey to inner peace through a mentoring program.

Lots more inspiration, hope and ideas for turning your life around in future blogs.  Please post any comments, questions I can answer or solutions you are looking for.

with love, Michele